i assume bc she is a girl with girly parts that can no way be involved in the hot yaoi (even tho THEY SHOULD BC LXLIGHTXMISA IS A BEAUTY PAIRING) and people therefore object strongly to her existence

no but honestly i think misa is a difficult character for people to wrap their heads around because we’ve been conditioned to only like female characters who fit this kind of arbitrary definition of “strong.” whereas male characters are allowed to be weak and fallible and utterly unlikable people but women are usually widely disliked for having those same flaws and failings

so basically my point is MISA AMANE DEFENSE SQUAD PLEASE UNITE